If you’ve discovered that you’ve fallen for a North Dakotan, congratulations! Luckily North Dakotans aren’t very high maintenance but there may be a few things that surprise outsiders. To help you out, here is a handy list of things you should expect to come with the relationship.

  1. Meeting their parents will probably include hotdish.

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  1. Taking a vacation with them probably means heading up to the lake.

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  1. Expect to have at least one outdoor toy… or many.

diamondbackcovers/Flickr ATVs, snowmobiles, boats… you better have some garage space!

  1. Don’t say they have an accent, because they’ll deny it.

Katie Wheeler/Flickr There is no “Fargo” accent! If you want someone with an accent, try northern Minnesota.

  1. They’ll always be able to one-up you when you complain about the cold.

Wes Peck/Flickr You think you’ve got it bad? Oh boy, have we got some stories of North Dakota winters for you.

  1. If you don’t like country music, you better get used to it.

robert_trudeau/Flickr Most of us like a good mix of country music and classic rock, so if you don’t… well, that’s just too darn bad.

  1. Don’t be surprised if their grandparents speak German or a Scandinavian language.

Alasdair Nicol/Flickr German is the second-most spoken language in North Dakota after English, and Norwegian is fourth. Many people immigrated from these countries to North Dakota just a few generations ago.

  1. And don’t be surprised if they serve some food from that region that you can’t spell.

Jimmy Emerson/Flickr What’s shown above is known as fleischkuechle. Even if it’s hard to spell and pronounce, it’s still delicious! Unless it’s lutefisk… that’s an acquired taste.

  1. They’re probably tougher than you.

lance_mountain/Flickr Bison tough! Seriously, don’t mess with these guys.

  1. They value loyalty above all.

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What is some dating advice you’d give for people getting into a relationship with a North Dakotan?

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Gary Eslinger/USFWS/Flickr

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ATVs, snowmobiles, boats… you better have some garage space!

Katie Wheeler/Flickr

There is no “Fargo” accent! If you want someone with an accent, try northern Minnesota.

Wes Peck/Flickr

You think you’ve got it bad? Oh boy, have we got some stories of North Dakota winters for you.

robert_trudeau/Flickr

Most of us like a good mix of country music and classic rock, so if you don’t… well, that’s just too darn bad.

Alasdair Nicol/Flickr

German is the second-most spoken language in North Dakota after English, and Norwegian is fourth. Many people immigrated from these countries to North Dakota just a few generations ago.

Jimmy Emerson/Flickr

What’s shown above is known as fleischkuechle. Even if it’s hard to spell and pronounce, it’s still delicious! Unless it’s lutefisk… that’s an acquired taste.

lance_mountain/Flickr

Bison tough! Seriously, don’t mess with these guys.

RichardBH/Flickr

Here are some North Dakota stereotypes you should be aware of that AREN’T true – just to make sure you don’t offend the person you’re with!

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